“You Shouldn’t Care Too Much Or Love Too Much”: TT Advising Her Mom, Mai TT On Mjolo
Mai TT’s youngest daughter Tanatswa has charmed Zimbabweans after she schooled her mother on love and relationships.
In a video that has been shared by Mai TT on Facebook, Tanatswa had a heart-to-heart talk with her mom as she gave her advice about love, dating and relationship.
TT as she affectionately called got candid with her mother as she revealed to her the real reason why most of her relationships have failed.
TT said that she has seen that her mom has a problem when it is love and relationships. She said every time her mother gets into a relationship it never works out. She stated her problem is that she loves too much and too hard.
“You do have a problem though…The problem is when you get into a relationship with someone, it never works out, have ever seen that?
I have noticed that when you like, love someone you love too hard. you love them too much, and you show them too much munotoperera pamunhu iyeye and you try to help them out in every possible way that you can.
She said that her mother could even buy a man a car if he asked her to.
“Munoperera pamunhu, you show them you care too much, you show them you love them too much. You make them your first priority. Like they are your world and that is wrong.”
TT schooled her mother on the pitfalls of loving too hard. She said that most men have been using her and taking her for granted because she loved and care for them too much. She advised her mother not to love too hard and not to show too much effort when she is dating someone.
“You shouldn’t care too much or love too much or show too much effort. Musaperere panemunhu. Don’t love too hard. Otherwise, they are going to take you for granted,” she said.