‘My husband always brings up my dad when we’re getting intimate – it’s so disturbing’
A woman is being creeped out by her husband who keeps mentioning her dad when they’re intimate – and people are telling her to run. The 27-year-old woman explained that her partner has been obsessed with ‘daddy, daughter role-play’ for the past five years.
Now she’s asking for advice as it has left her feeling disturbed. Unfortunately, every time she’s spoken about it with her husband he tells her she needs to loosen up. To make matters worse, she explained that she didn’t know her biological father when she was growing up – which seems to be the source of her 35-year-old partner’s fetish.
She added that he would bring it up when they were getting intimate and would make unsettling comments about the kind of sexual actions she could have performed on her father if he had been present in her life. “I never really realised how disturbing this is but I have been in deep depression and have been trying to find the cause. Maybe these things hurt me on a subconscious level and violate my conscious,” she wrote on Reddit.
Unsurprisingly, the post had many people concerned, with hundreds sharing their thoughts and advice. Primarily, people were telling her to leave him. “I had an immediate physical reaction to this, like I actually recoiled. This is absolutely, utterly repellent at an atomic level. You need to get away from this person immediately,” one woman said. A man added: “Dude! I occasionally enjoy the odd, ‘f**k me daddy’, but this is some next level sh*t that you should probably take to a professional.”
Some advised her to ‘never have children’ with her spouse because of his fantasy behaviours, which they deemed were worrying from a child safety perspective. It was at this moment the omen revealed that he has two children from a previous relationship. “You need to tell the baby mumma so he doesn’t have access to those kids, and keep him away from any other kids in your life,” someone warned. “This is red flag city! Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. If you do anything but leave him and report this to the kids’ mother then you need to take a long look in the mirror at yourself and your values,” said another.
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