TikTok Star in A Polyamorous Relationship with Two Men

SOUTH AFRICA- Mathapelo Kanyane, known as Black Cat Girl on TikTok, has caught attention with her unique relationship setup.

The 33-year-old, who was previously a stripper and singer, is in a polyamorous relationship with two men: 39-year-old dancer Mixon Tholo, also known as Tsekeleke, and Itumeleng Randela from Venda in Limpopo, who now lives in Carletonville, Gauteng.

Black Cat Girl has been with Tsekeleke for over a year, but things changed when she reconnected with Itumeleng.

“We dated in the past but broke up. Recently, we started talking again, and I wanted her back,” Itumeleng shared with DailySun.

At that time, Black Cat was still with Tsekeleke. Although Itumeleng asked her to break up with him, she refused, saying she loves them both. Tsekeleke has even posted TikTok videos expressing his distress over the possibility of her leaving him.

Faced with these strong feelings, Itumeleng realized that breaking up with Tsekeleke wasn’t possible. Initially uncomfortable, he accepted this unusual relationship.

“We tried sleeping on the same bed once, but it didn’t work out. Now, we don’t sleep together at all,” he explained.

Tsekeleke prefers to keep details private but stated, “I love Black Cat Girl, and that’s all that matters.” Black Cat Girl openly shares her love for both men, saying they bring different things to the relationship. “I want to have children with both and hope they will both marry me,” she said.

To keep things balanced, they agreed to spend four nights a week with each man. “At first, they weren’t comfortable, but now they’re happy, and sometimes they even spend time together without me,” she added.

Black Cat Girl hopes her relationship can inspire others. “Women can have both men if they want to. If it works for them, they should go ahead,” she said.

-DailySun