New TikTok Challenge Goes Viral: “We listen, We don’t Judge”
A provocative new TikTok trend, the “We listen, we don’t judge” challenge, is sweeping across social media platforms, captivating users in South Africa and around the world with shocking confessions and emotional stories.
The challenge involves groups of friends sharing humorous yet often startling “confessions” with one another. Participants film themselves revealing outrageous or embarrassing secrets—whether true or fabricated—under the premise of “just for laughs.”
While the authenticity of these confessions is still up for debate, the trend has particularly resonated with teenagers, their friends, and even parents and university students around the world.
The challenge begins with the catchphrase “we listen and we don’t judge,” setting the stage for participants to share their stories without fear of criticism.
Many confessions center around relationships between teenagers and older men, often taxi drivers or friends’ fathers.
While some may view the challenge as harmless fun, it brings to light serious underlying issues, prompting discussions about societal concerns in various communities.
The phenomenon highlights the troubling reality of older men enticing young girls with promises of money or luxury items, leading to potentially exploitative relationships.
Confessions such as “I slept with my friend’s boyfriend” or “I slept with my dad/uncle/stepdad” raise alarming questions, especially in light of the ongoing rise in HIV/Aids.
As the “We listen, we don’t judge” challenge continues to gain traction, it serves as a reminder of the need for responsible discussions surrounding these critical issues impacting young people today.
